You are a new creation. We all carry this desire to do things ourselves. This is our sinful nature. Jesus came to restore our relationship with God, with each other, and with creation. Jesus calls us to be Christ-like. To show love to others and to be selfless. In 2 Corinthians 5:17, it says ‘You have been made into a new creation’. God has made us righteous and empowers us with the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit teaches you how to live out your internal reality. Allow him to transform you into the true person God has made you to be.